First foods for Mathew

Mathew’s first taste of applesauce.

When Mathew was transitioning to solid foods, we looked at the options: premade foods or making our own. We looked at a variety of factors involved: quality, ingredients, chemicals, ease, and waste. We concluded that making our own baby food met all our needs.

  • We had the most control over what ingredients were put into the food.
  • There was very little waste. Many times a little one will not finish the contents of the jar, so it is put in the refrigerator and after a couple of days in the refrigerator, it must be thrown out, and the jar needs to be recycled. There can be quite a bit of waste and energy involved.
  • It was incredibly easy.

The general philosophy to starting a little one on solids is to try one food at a time for four days in order to make sure there is no allergy to that specific food. Then try another for four days, and so on and so on. You do not want to combine foods until you feel confident that there are no food allergies.  I made Mathew’s food in small batches and filled an ice cube tray with the leftovers. Once frozen, I put the food cubes in a bag and labeled it with the food name and date. An ice cube tray contains 14 cubes or 14 meals. After a month or two of trying new foods and freezing them, you have quite a stockpile of food cubes. Then you start combining them. I bought a baby food mill to process the food but soon realized that a hand blender created a better and smoother consistency.

Mathew was never a big eater, and still isn’t, so this method was ideal. I made and froze food every fours day for a month and a half and then fed him from the freezer. By the time, we worked through all the food cubes in the freezer he was ready for real solid foods.  Basically, I spent about 20 minutes, twice a week, preparing wholesome nutritious food for Mathew. Then after a month and a half of making food, I simply defrosted cubes. They traveled great, I would pack our outing bag and put the frozen cubes in a container, and by the time Mathew was ready to eat, they were defrosted.

Each child has its own preference, so experimenting is best. When Mathew was 7 months old, we tried his first food – applesauce – very appropriate since his Dad grows apples. We used Empires and unfortunately he was not thrilled, possibly too tart. Later on, we tried Matsu, which he preferred.  For the next couple of months, Mathew tried a new food once a day at dinner; it felt like he was simply humoring us, since he really didn’t seem excited about eating. Within 4 months, he appeared to enjoy eating and was ready to eat real solid food. Just in time since, the freezer was empty.

Mathew loving his beets!

I started with fairly simply foods and processed what we were eating. We were hoping to create a food connection and family meals.

  • The first foods Mathew ate:
  • Applesauce *
  • Rice cereal mixed with breast milk
  • Sweet Potato *
  • Pearsauce *
  • Apricots *
  • Carrots
  • Bananas
  • Beets *
  • Avocado #
  • Yogurt
  • Kiwi
  • Asparagus
  • Oatio’s

* LOVED!                                                                                                                                  # hated

I always hear how expensive a baby is, well there are ways around some of the expense. Breastfeeding and making your own baby food is easy and very inexpensive.

Exploring Freely

I grew up in the 70s when there were only 7 TV channels, vinyl records, 8 track tapes, cassettes, and phones were tethered to the wall. And can you imagine ~ parents that for the most part left kids alone to explore their worlds and get this; kids decided when they wanted to hangout with friends all by themselves. I lived in the suburbs, a bedroom community of NYC, where my father worked. Unlike many of our neighbors, we lived in the woods. Our house was situated within almost 3 acres of woods, with a babbling brook that flowed for miles behind the house. There were many close by developments but our unique location felt remote as across the street was 40 acres of woods (today the land is full of 1 acre McMansions). I walked or rode my bike all by myself to the elementary school, which was less than a mile down the road, or to a friend’s house. I spent countless hours exploring our woods and brook with my faithful dog, Candy. Sometimes we would follow the brook through all our neighbors’ backyards. Moreover, not once did anyone have a problem with us wandering through their backyard or did I feel unsafe. Some days we would simply lie on one of the huge boulders scattered throughout our forest and watch the clouds flow by and trees sway. I was left to my own devices for the most part.

Things have changed quite a bit since I was in elementary school. There seems to be less free time for exploring outdoors unsupervised. Our children’s time seem to be more structured and scheduled. Kids have play dates now and most are based on the parent’s schedule because they tend to attend them as well. Sure that makes sense when they are toddlers but it seems to continue until they are much older nowadays, at least for the first couple of times just to make sure it is a “safe environment.”

Even though Mathew’s first hike occurred when he was just 10 days old and we spent most of his first 4 years teaching new parents weekly about hiking and exploring the woods with their little ones, he is just okay with going for a hike or being outdoors. Thank goodness, he doesn’t hate it but he really could take it or leave it. If he had a choice, he would stay inside and play video games. I found this very interesting since once he is in the woods he seems very comfortable and easily wanders off ahead of us. Nevertheless, when we are home, he has no desire to simply go into our backyard and explore. So, I decided to investigate this further and interviewed him.

Me: “Do you like hiking or exploring outdoors?”

Mathew: “It’s okay.”

Me: “What do you like about going on a hike or being outdoors?”

Mathew: “Looking for places to hide, like caves.”

Me: “Do you ever get scared when you hike ahead of us and are all alone?”

Mathew: “No.”

Me: “If you were left home alone for 4 hours, would you stay indoors or explore outdoors.”

Mathew: “If I could use the computer, I would stay indoors and play games all day.”

Me: “If you only had 7 TV channels, records, 8 track tapes, cassettes, a phone that was tethered to the wall and Atari with 2 games to play ~  Pong and Space Invaders, would you rather stay home alone for 4 hours or explore outside for 4 hours?

Mathew: “Stay inside for a while and then go outside to play and explore.”

I found this very telling. Our society has created an incredible mind suck for our youth and adults for that matter. Every year it seems to suck us in deeper and deeper. Hey, people don’t even need to attend college classes anymore ~ they can do it online now. I cannot imagine missing out on learning and exchanging ideas together in a classroom; it made the experience so much richer than reading simply the textbook. People are becoming more and more isolated although they have 500 “friends” on Facebook.  Most of the games Mathew plays have a chat option, where he “feels” he can connect with “friends.” I do not know what the answer is as technology is not going away and interacting with nature and the real world should be more important. When a child is out in nature, all their senses are activated. They are immersed in something bigger than themselves. Rather than focusing narrowly on one thing, such as a computer screen. It gives them a chance for their brains to rejuvenate and breathe fresh air.  Richard Louv, actually wrote a book and coined the phrase Nature-Deficit Disorder because he observed this disconnect from the natural world was producing ill effects on both our minds and bodies.

I am not sure what the solution is but something needs to be done. How can we coexist with technology in a healthy manner? I do not think it is appropriate or realistic to treat it like an addiction and simply remove it from our lives. Sure, let’s see how well that would go over ~ NOT. Nevertheless, perhaps we need to identify specific times or days where we can give the pervasive technology a rest ~ similar to the Sabbath. A specific time to be released from technology and worship the tangible and natural world ~ reconnect with each other and life itself.

scan0033What do you think? Please share and I will continue to share.